Dear Nana
Its been 1 month since you went and there is not a minute of the day where I don’t think of you.
I don’t think anyone really understands, lives go on and people go about the day. Its how it should be but I miss you so much.
Everytime I pick a dish for Samuel fruit….its one you gave me. When I put Nivea on my face in the morning….or climb the stairs at night…I hear you.
I never realized it was possible that you would leave such a gap in my world.
Everyone has their sadness that you have gone, but mine lies in between them all. I am expected to grieve as a grand daughter but its more than that….you were always more than that. That’s not acceptable though, its not what I am supposed to do, its not the line I am supposed to follow.
I will find a way through….I just wanted you to know I miss you and I love you…..
Jo
xxxxxx
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
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5 comments:
I don't believe there is a "supposed to" in grieve. It's different for everybody. You just handle this the way it feels best for you.
xo
I believe also Natasja is right everyone has his own way to handle
grieve. And you don't have to do it like everybody dose. Its your grieve and your own way to handle it. And no one can tell you how you most do that.Do it your own way, and how you feel it's good.
XOXO Gerjon
Don't you worry about "what you are supposed to do" grief is a personal thing, so take your time and handle it the way that is good for you sweetheart.
big hugs
Need I say more than the others, they are right sweetie!
Follow your heart.....
And although the world goes on, it does not mean I don't think of you.
Hugs,
Antoinette
oh hun, i hadnt relaised about your loss, thinking of you and Katja,you must cry when you feel like it, and take time out to grieve
lots of love
anna xx
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